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On March 28,
2009, I learned that a notice had been posted
(on January 16) in the courthouse in Multnomah
County (Portland, Oregon), indicating my
wife's application for a divorce. This was
followed just under 5 weeks later by the
marriage between my wife and the man who
exploited her position and preyed on her.
Remaining
faithful to a marriage is difficult when
couples are forced apart for such a long
period of time. I remained completely faithful
throughout. Ling-Ling did her best - at least
until sometime just after my birthday in June,
2008. I reckon perhaps it was 5 months before
her new husband began to prey upon her and
worked upon taking her away from me. How soon
they became physically or 'romantically'
involved is another question.
I do know that
by the time my Visa application to return to
the US was refused on August 11, 2008, that
the rot began to set in. Just one month later,
Ling-Ling had all but given up on our
marriage.
It was always at
the back of my mind that I could lose
Ling-Ling. That torment alone drove me to
travel to Canada - in the hope I could find a
way to get to see her - to save our marriage.
Probably
sometime between being trapped in Canada, and
crossing the border illegally, the odds of
saving our marriage had worsened.
That's it.
America has done everything it can to keep us
apart, to destroy our happiness. It was only
about 1 month ago that I still had hope that
Ling-Ling would come to the UK later this
year, but all in vain. Now my wife was
deceiving me. Not that she is an evil person,
she just did not have the courage to tell me
the truth. But betrayal is betrayal. And I'm
sure she has also felt betrayed by my
inability to overcome UK law and get her to
the UK.
For a woman who
was abandoned by her first husband, one can
only understand the obvious conclusion to our
marriage. But that in no ways justifies in any
sense that the American authorities caused the
destruction of our marriage.
To the day I
die, I shall never forgive the Americans for
being so evil. The 'man' who exploited Ling-Ling's
loneliness and fears is nothing but low-life
rat, a piece of degenerate scum who abandoned
his own wife and child to indulge in a sordid
affair with my wife.
I've suffered so
much. Mistreated, threatened, blackmailed,
abused, hospitalized, falsely incriminated,
and in the end, dishonoured and humiliated.
I've endured all of this because my love for
Ling-Ling is total.
I've also tried
to remain honest and true to our cause. I've
pleaded with, implored, begged and petitioned
politicians, ambassadors and other authorities
to help. We have been betrayed by all and
sundry. They have betrayed their own duty,
they have shown their contempt for love, their
dislike of justice, and above all, they have
failed to prove themselves human beings. They
are the gutter trash of society.
For all that
others tried to do to prevent our marriage, I
remained loyal to my love for her. She is my
'holy grail', a cause so worthy that to fail
is completely unacceptable. It is as much a
sin for me to lose as as she has been taken
away from me. I hold myself to blame in this
respect, so I have to do something to put
right what has gone wrong.
Where this will
lead, I do not know. But I shall not know true
peace until some order has been restored, some
justice has been done - and be seen to be
done. There will be many more restless nights
until an open wound is healed.
As a
consequence, this story is long from finished.
A course of action must be decided, and one
which cannot be put into words. And as they
say, deeds speak louder than words.
Watch this space
... and prepare for
Part 13. |
